Starting the conversation with your parents about moving to a care facility can be difficult but is a necessity in many cases. To start the conversation, ask them questions about their safety and chore level. When you are talking with your parents about moving to a care facility, you should start planning before a need suddenly arises and be patient as this is a monumental decision for both you and your parents. Ask your parents about their wishes in a facility (location, activity level, living quarters, etc.) and weigh all your options along with their opinions. Even though starting the conversation can be tough, not starting the conversation could pose health risks for your parents.